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Learning To Love Yourself: No To Insecurities




Learning to love yourself , is the greatest love of all ~ Whitney Houston

The The biggest struggle in life is the struggle to know, embrace, and accept ourselves, with all of our faults and imperfections.

When we have the courage to let the walls down – to know and embrace ourselves, despite our human failings, we also open the door to connecting in a more caring, empathic, intimate way with the ones we love and with all living beings.

in that light, why try to fit in when you were born to stand out . loving your self is the greatest gift of life.

if anyone tells you, you not good to fit into their cycle. Never mind, just tell them you too important to want to fit in.

We were all born to be extra ordinary , no one can compete with your abilities ,your talents, your beauties and like wise you cant compete with anyone either.

Don’t ever criticize yourself. Don’t go around all day long thinking, ‘I’m unattractive, I’m slow, I’m not as smart as my brother.’

God wasn’t having a bad day when he made you. If you don’t love yourself in the right way, you can’t love your neighbor. You can’t be as good as you are supposed to be.

If you learn to love your self and all your flaws , you can love other people so much better and that should make you so happy.

There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love . when we are afraid, we pull back from life.

When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. we need to learn to love ourselves first,in all our glory and our imperfections.





If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.

learning to love yourself first brings more joy and peace than trying to love someone else. The best way to learn to love yourself is by being alone.

After you learn to love you in the company of self and cherish the time alone, you will find the answer to self love.

If you don’t love yourself, take care of yourself, cater for yourself and that little inner voice, you will really not be very worthy of being with someone else, because you won’t be the best version of you.

learn to love your self enough so that when some one enters your life that treats you negatively, you can stand up for your self and have the strength to let them go.

you can learn that it is okay to say no to anyone who is not willing to treat you with the love and respect you not only want, but also deserve, have the courage to walk away from anything that does not serve you well. search for your highest good.

Further more, Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.You are very powerful, provided you know how powerful you are.

We are each gifted in a unique and important way. It is our privilege and our adventure to discover our own special light. Everything worth having costs something, and the price of true love is self-knowledge.

Becoming acquainted with yourself is a price well worth paying. For the love that will really address your needs. My willingness to be intimate with my own deep feelings creates the space for intimacy with another. People are like stained-glass windows.

They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in their true beauty is revealed only if there is light from within.

Therefore, Let us learn to love ourselves so we can be more open and compassionate to others, and so we can take down the walls that limit who we can be and what we can contribute. Know your vulnerabilities as well as your strengths and achievements, and learn to love yourself for both.

Love yourself




4 thoughts on “Learning To Love Yourself: No To Insecurities”

  1. Carmen Heather Slice says:

    Because I have spent a majority of my life in service to others … People tend to largely believe I do not like myself and/or do not know myself. I feel the opposite. I feel I am in constant transition. I usually leave room in my life to be aquainted with my ever new and changing current self. others see I pre-serve the world only to have a bland unrepaid servitude. My perspective is that I Much undertsand my innerself (usually not always) that I wld rather spend my time in the nooks and crannies of my little world that I see need the most regular of help. Such as washing dishes for the lady next door even tho she begs u not to. Or encouraging a youth on whatever is the matter. With no judgement or wish to have it returned. Some tend to think I am slow, aloof, or unaware. The truth is I see all around me and choose to let them think that. Especially if I am on a task of helping someone. It gets annoying but leads my thoughts to a far more gentle realm to relish in the end. Still, it sucks to be seen as uneducated. I considered myself to be a well written and forward thinking individual. I have some college education but no degree. But the degree in which I promote kindness, equality, and individuality seems more important than my intellectual status on paper. p.s. none of these actions have been paying the bills lol

    1. loretha says:

      Pray God gives you discernment to push through life. You gon be alright

  2. Raphael says:

    Very inspirational indeed, “self love”

  3. Ahmad says:

    It’s amazing article.it provides me a new way to run my life with limitless pleasure.

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